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Today is World NF Awareness Day.

A day you’ve probably never even heard about, a day the Blazier’s wish everyone knew more about. I urge you to take a few moments today to read this story, a story by an incredible family I am honored to call my friends, my family, my military family. Even if you have never heard of NF or met anyone who has it, please share this story. I would love to help Jordan connect with others also diagnosed with Neurofibromatosis, he’s waited more than 12 years already. Let’s fix that today.

May is NF awareness month

What is NF? Neurofibromatosis (NF) encompasses a set of distinct genetic disorders causing tumors to grow along various types of nerves.

In addition, NF can affect the development of non-nervous tissues such as bones & skin. NF causes tumors to grow anywhere on or in the body. There are several different types of NF & manifestations differ from person to person. From Café-au-lait spots, the most common sign of NF, to Neurofibroma tumors which vary in size and composition, each person carries their own unique symptoms. Roughly 100,000 people in the U.S. have been diagnosed with some form of NF, yet there is no cure & few treatment options available.

Meet the Blaziers

Neurofibromatosis AwarenessMy name is Jennifer, I am the parent to an amazing 13 year old boy, named Jordan, who was diagnosed with NF1 on his 1st birthday. Jordan is like many other teens. He enjoys playing sports, hanging out with his friends, driving his younger sister crazy, hates cleaning his room and has a zest for life that many adults would love to recapture. But, unlike other kids his age, Jordan feels comfortable in hospitals & around doctors because he has spent his entire life being followed and cared for by numerous specialists who monitor his tumor(s) growth and other clinical manifestations.

Jordan’s most recent development and complication has been the growth of an inoperable Astrocytoma brain tumor. Although considered to be a rare tumor, pediatric astrocytoma tumors are considered to be common among NF1 patients; as they are considered to be tumors of the central nervous system. The number of tumor growths and type vary widely among affected individuals from only a few to thousands. Presently, there is no way to predict how many persons will develop NF, how many tumors they may grow or how their specific symptoms will affect them. Therefore, regular checkups and MRI scans are the preferred diagnostic tools to monitor tumor growth. Tumor removal is risky and not always an option (as in Jordan’s case); typically, NF tumors grow along the patient’s nerve ending that originate somewhere along the central nervous system. Complete tumor removal requires the skills of a surgeon who specializes in tumor extractions that remove the tumor; yet, not disturb any affected nerves, which often times could result in paralysis of the affected area.

I am not sure if there are any words in the English dictionary that would adequately convey what it is like to be a parent of a child who has a condition that science has yet to discover a cure for. Yet, at the same time and through all of this craziness, we feel blessed as Jordan’s parents! We give thanks and praise God for choosing us to be Jordan’s parents. We are thankful for the amazing team of physicians that surround us & guide us along this journey. We are appreciative for having the opportunity to watch and learn from our amazing son; who continues to be our teacher almost daily. Most of all, we are thankful that Jordan continues to live and fights the fight. At 13 years of age, he still has much to learn. Yet, at the same time, Jordan has so much to offer this amazing world we live in. As parents, there is not a day that I do not stand in his shadows in awe of his personal courage, his resilience and his zest for life. Since the day we first heard the words and learned of Neurofibromatosis, as Jordan’s parents, we vowed to never allow his medical condition to define him or limit all that he could become. It is for this reason, I honor my son’s wishes today, by sharing Jordan’s story, in hope of giving back to others by bringing awareness to the NF community.

The Children’s Tumor Foundation is the leading foundation for Neurofibromatosis 1; whose mission is to educate, advocate and bring awareness about this medical disorder to one community at a time. Finding cures and treatment options starts with the understanding that an issue exists. A patient registry was initiated in 2012. One of the purposes for the registry is to bring NF families together so they can: gather a more accurate picture of of how NF has affected each individual who has been diagnosed, networking, research studies, etc. Knowledge is important and becomes the power needed for the building blocks to finding a cure.

We are asking any individual diagnosed with NF1 to register at nfregistry.org .

Your confidential information will be used by researchers to help find treatment options and ultimately a cure. To find out more about NF please visit ctf.org which houses a vast variety of information about this diagnosis, the foundation, ongoing research and volunteer opportunities to those who wish to help bring awareness into their Community.

Thank you for taking the time to read a little about our story. Hopefully we have inspired you to help spread awareness about NF and encourage those affected to register at nfregistry.org.

Again, thank you and God Bless.

The Blazier Family

 

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Signs of Spring: Great Expectations

by Stacy on March 20, 2013

“It was one of those March days when the sun shines hot and the wind blows cold: when it is summer in the light, and winter in the shade.”

~Charles Dickens, Great Expectations

Welcome my old friend Spring, it’s been awhile.

We’ve been keeping pretty quiet around these parts, but not for lack of life or love. I’ve been finding my footing on this brand new ground, and I’m almost ready to plant my feet and spread my wings.

Times they are a changing ….

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Good Girls Give Back

by Stacy on December 26, 2012

I’ve been following along with the Good Girl’s List To A Glam Holiday over the last few weeks and biding my time … waiting for that perfect moment, like trying to hop in to a game of double dutch. These fabulous ladies have covered everything from the perfect gift to the perfect cocktail in true glam fashion.

The Good List : A Glam Holiday Guide

I almost made it in to the mix a time or two, but I kept missing my opportunity. Now, I finally get my chance. The Good Girl’s have invited me in (confession: I was never really that good at double dutch …) specifically to chat about one of my favorite topics — Doing Social Good. This week the girl’s are looking to do some good deeds of their own, and they came to the perfect place because I know some pretty good girls myself!

This post means a lot to me because it highlights some of the wonderful people I have become friends with this year, and some of the truly amazing things we have managed to accomplish in numbers. I am excited for what 2013 will bring, knowing what we are capable of and confident these girls will help me make it a year to remember!

1. Small Hands Creating Hope


I teamed up with MaryAnne and her crew earlier this year to celebrate a truly special birthday. Her 30th birthday of being cancer free, and to celebrate she wanted to do something BIG. A gesture that really touches my heart, proof that small hands can make a big difference. The result was a fantastic craft book, Small Hands Creating Hope, put together by some amazing bloggers and a fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. We have raised more than $1,200 through this project so far. I gave a copy of this book to my father for Christmas, there is a project in the book dedicated to him and the journey we took when he had cancer.

2. Moms Fighting Hunger

Life has a funny way of leading you to the place you were meant to be all along. That’s what happened to me in September when I partnered up with Jen and started a Facebook page called Mom’s Fighting Hunger. Originally intended to be a place to highlight ways to help during National Hunger Month, it turned in to so much more. Visits to Food Banks, Kids Feeding with Reading and even food drive play dates, the women of Moms Fighting Hunger rallied together and made a huge impact. We decided this was a cause worth supporting all year, so I hope you will take a moment and like the page to stay up to date as we grow and spread our wings. We have a recipe book coming out VERY soon.
Moms Fighting Hunger

3. No Kid Hungry

One of the most amazing things that happened to me as a result of starting Moms Fighting Hunger has been partnering with No Kid Hungry. I started sharing my personal story as it relates to their cause, but havent finished it. This partnership has opened up doors to my past I thought were long closed and paved pathways to the future I cannot wait to explore. They announced it recently but I have yet to post it here, I am now a proud member of their Social Action Council. Look for lots more information and ways we can all make a difference for children who need our support.

I couldn’t mention No Kid Hungry without jumping up and down a bit to tell you about our Giveathon last week, and how we raised $15,000 in one day!! Such an incredible movement and I am so excited to be a part of it. Donations are still being matched through the end of the month, so feel free to contribute anything you can on our fundraising page. It is all tax deductible and 10 meals can be provided for every $1 you give.

4. 31 Days or Service

Next on my list of feel good projects is Mom It Forward’s 31 Days of Service, have you been following along with all the inspiring acts bloggers are doing in conjunction with this project?

I am so inspired by these women and proud of all that they have accomplished in such a short period of time. Catch up on all the acts here and be sure to read the touching story of how one family set out to make a difference in another’s this holiday season. I love this story because it grew so much bigger than any of us and turned in to a real Christmas miracle. Thanks to an article Jen wrote about this family on a news site, someone donated more than $7,000 to help pay for their medical bills!

Amazing! Can you feel the impact we are starting to make already … I get goosebumps just thinking about it.

5. Feel Good Round Up


There are so many other wonderful things going on in the blogosphere right now, I don’t want you to miss any of them! Have you heard about the Snowflakes for Sandy Hook project? MaryAnne has rallied her community together and asks for others to do the same. Rachel is starting a Handmade for Newtown auction to raise money for the families in Connecticut. You can get all the details on that project here. I’d love to see her get a large response.

Megan practiced 24 Days of Christmas Random Acts of Kindness and I love her even more for it than I did already, it reminds me of Katheirne Marie and her 52 smiles project. I am constantly inspired by her, if you have never happened on to Katherine’s site please bookmark it immediately. It is pure gold.

And finally, I love the premise behind the Blog 4 Cause link up Alli and Amy are hosting this month. Please do take a peek and see if you have any links you could add of your own.


I know that was a whole lot of information in one post, take a few moments to check it all out and then head over to Mayhar Design (beautiful!) and see what ideas these stylish sisters have for good girls to give back.

Thanks so much for following along with me this year!
I’ll be back next year with a fresh perspective, fun focus and plenty of ideas on
how to connect with your family and do a little good along the way.

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A Season of Giving: 31 Days of Service

by Stacy on December 1, 2012

I think over the last three holidays, today has become my favorite day of the year. Each December 1st, I sit down with my children and we make a list of all the fun and giving activities we want to take part in over the holidays. You’ve seen me mention it before, here, here and here.

Like most parenting experiences I learn something each year — spending time together is more memorable and usually more enjoyable for everyone than activities that costs us money, planning too many activities away from home makes for a harried and stressful holiday, and my favorite, doing good and giving back is a wonderful family affair and rewarding experience for all.

This year, we are incorporating even more good deeds into our advent activities and I am so excited to have Mom It Forward’s new e-book to help me with some fresh ideas.

31 Days of Service E-Book

I’ll be working on my advent plan with my family today, and I encourage you to do the same with yours. Mom It Forward has made and entire calendar devoted to service projects any family can do together. You can read all about the wonderful ideas by signing up for their newsletter and getting the free e-book in return. It has gorgeous photos, great ideas and fun printables for you too.

I thought it would be fun to try and highlight a friend who has done one of the tasks on the calendar everyday this month. Each day, I’ll update the links here in this post and profile each blogger in an individual article on Sulia, where I am a new contributor to their parenting channel, and also on a very special Pinterest board with Mom It Forward. I invite you all to follow along and be inspired.

Check out all my sweet friends who will be participating and get to know them throughout the month, we have a few days left open if you would like to join us and participate. You can read a detailed description of each days prompts in the e-book.

Day 1 – Create Your Own Service Calendar
Blogger: Stacy of Kids Stuff World

Day 2 – JOY Your Neighborhood
Blog: Leanna of All Done Monkey

Day 3 – Leave Mailbox Goodies
Blogger: Kristina of Toddler Approved

Day 4 – Celebrate the 12 Days of Christmas
Blogger: Jennifer of The Good Long Road

Day 5 – Host a Food Drive
Blogger: JDaniel4′s Mom

Blogger: Helen of Curly Birds – How to Host a Food Drive

Day 6 – Give Groceries
Blogger: Deidre on Kids Activities Blog

Blogger: Colleen of San Antonio Mom Blogs

Day 7 – Celebrate Pearl Harbor Day
Blogger: Rob Hatton

Day 8 – Serve a Food Shelter (for littles)
Blogger: Carolyn of The Pleasantest Thing

Day 9 – Host a Cookie Exchange
Blogger: Mari of Inspired by Family

Day 10 – Spread the Puppy Love
Blogger: Ariana of The Remi Project

Day 11 – Appreciate Culture
Blogger: Beth of Living Life Intentionally

Day 12 – Clear the Way
Blogger: Megan of Coffee Cups and Crayons

Day 13 – Spread Candy Cane Cheer
Blogger: Kendall of Home Learning Journey

Day 14 – Share Your Talents
Blogger: Debbie of Rainbows Within Reach

Day 15 – Sub For Santa
Blogger: Shari Biediger

Day 16 – Go Caroling
Blogger: Carolyn of The Pleasantest Thing

Blogger: Sea World Texas Wildside Bloggers

Day 17 – Clean Your Closet
Blogger: Mari of Inspired by Family

Blogger: Helen of Curly Birds

Day 18 – Serve With Smiles
Blogger: Deborah of Learn With Play At Home

Day 19 – Provide Coloring Comfort
Blogger: Susan Case of Kindergarten & Preschool for Parents & Teachers

Day 20 – Share Compliments
Blogger: Jacquie of Edventures for Kids

Day 21 – Host a Book Drive
Blogger: Joyce of Childhood Beckons

Day 22 – Practice Kindness and Patience
Blogger: Leann of Montessori Tidbits

Day 23 – Hand Out Cheerful Post-Its
Blogger: Melissa of Mama Miss

Day 23 (#2) – Hand Out Cheerful Post-its
Blogger: Jen of Kitchen Counter Chronicle

Day 24 – Give Neighbor Gifts
Blogger: Megan of Coffee Cups and Crayons

Day 25 – Gift It Forward
Blogger: Morena of Morena’s Corner

Day 26 – Get Online
Blogger: Stacy of Kids Stuff World

Day 27 – Donate a Toy
Blogger: Cyn of Creative Cynchroncity

Day 28 – Collect Coupons
Blogger:

Day 29 – Participate in a Drive Through Donation
Blogger:

Day 30 – Thank Public Servants
Blogger: Valerie of Glittering Muffins

Day 31 – Create a January Service Calendar
Blogger: Mom It Forward

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Part 2

by Stacy on September 13, 2012

continued from part 1 ….

I didn’t get to where I was going right away. There were many twists and turns, and ups and downs, and winding roads along the way. The darkness that hung over those years clouds my memory, and keeps me from painting a clear, chronological picture for you here.

Big day in the city. Hope yours is going well #nokidhungry #momsfighthunger

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I would be nine years old before I finally found a place, I could call home.

I arrived in the middle of the night, I recall because the drive was long. Far further from the city than I had ever travelled before. We had to keep stopping so I could be sick. Nine years old and unable to keep down food of any kind.

I can remember almost everything from that day forward. There was a large dog. The first of his size I had ever seen. In the beginning I was petrified, but it did not take long for either of us to warm up to one another. There were horses too, and more land than I could see with my own two eyes. We had a tiny 1960′s, single-wide trailer and all the roads glowed white at night and made fantastic sand castles during the day.

There was the issue of school, and of me eating food. My new guardian insisted I do both right away.

School came easiest, I mean I had been to one before. Liked it even. But I would need to start a new one. Again. There had been several schools already to come and go.

The food part, came a bit harder, but he quickly figured out a way to solve that. A hamburger and french fry a day seem to fix the problem and the more I ate and the healthier I got, there was a promise of my very own bicycle!

I don’t think there are words to express the gravity of what this bike would mean to me. I had never owned anything like this before. My prized possession up till this point had been a tiny, posable Care Bear figurine my mother had brought with her to visit me in foster care once upon a time.

Nothing was going to keep me from having my own bike. I worked hard at school, and even harder at eating. Hardee’s and I became best buds! Can you spell q-u-a-r-t-e-r pounder with cheese, please? When the first semester of school ended, I had done so well with both tasks … I was given not one bike, but two!

One purple. One orange.

I think it took me longer to learn how to ride those two bikes … then it did to pack on some pounds or get moved to the advanced classes in school. In my defense, learning to ride a low to the ground bike looks much easier to me than those tall towering, metal contraptions I kept tumbling off of!

And just so you know, I rode both of those bikes in to the ground till the day I left.

These were happy times. Happy times indeed. I had a large place to roam and “cousins” to call family, and a guardian who looked after and cared for me. Not to mention, two bikes and a dog!

“Momma once told me, you’re already home where you feel loved.”
~ The Head and the Heart 

For a very, very long time, these were the best days of my life. I remember every single one of them, or at least it feels as if I do.

Every single one of those days in that almost, perfect five years …

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